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The
Clothing Chronicles
September
30, 2004 #152
FashionForRealWomen.com
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In This Issue:
Message
From Diana
Feature
Article: 5 Rules For Wearing Designer Apparel
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MESSAGE FROM DIANA
Thanks again
to everyone who wrote with comments and observations about my Fall
2004 "Best Bet" picks - including some of my readers in the
Southern Hemisphere who wrote to remind me that they're just now
emerging from winter and are looking for some spring fashion tips.
What should
you wear if you live Down Under?
Well, start by
taking a look at what I recommended to readers for Spring 2004:
http://www.fashionforrealwomen.com/articles/springfashions2004/bestbuys.htm
Then click on
over to VOGUE's website to get a preview of Spring 2005 at:
http://www.style.com/fashionshows/collections/S2005RTW/runwayshows/index.html
You'll see
lots of trends here, obviously, but you may also be able to glean
some styling ideas that you can put to use in your warm weather
wardrobe. Take a look at textures, shapes, and layering to see what
ideas you can employ. You may surprise yourself.
So what's on
tap for today's article? Guidelines for wearing designer apparel.
Enjoy!
Diana
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com
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FEATURED ARTICLE
5 Rules For
Wearing Designer Apparel
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In the early
1870's, Charles Frederick Worth, the "father of Haute
Couture," found himself in an awkward position. He'd been
designing fine apparel and dictating fashion trends from Paris for
nearly 15 years, and his client list included a who's who of royals,
world leaders, and industrial barons, to name a few. |

Charles
Frederick Worth |
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A master
stylist and exacting clothier, Worth was notoriously demanding of the
women who wore his clothes. Nothing left his atelier that was
anything short of perfection, and in a manner that would make Trinny
and Susannah of BBC's What
Not To Wear look like pussycats, Worth was known to reduce
his clients to tears if they attempted to wear styles that did not
suit them or if they haphazardly paired accessories. Worth women were
the belles of any balls they attended, but not without first
submitting to Charles' demanding standards. |

Reception Dress
1877
CincinnatiArtMuseum.com |
Around 1873,
Worth found himself with a client whom he could neither bully nor
control. She was the wife of a new-moneyed entrepreneur, and she'd
set her sights on becoming a member of New York society. What she
lacked in schooling and finesse she made up for with money and ambition.
Here was the problem:
Worth was the
exclusive clothier for a certain popular European princess. Lovely
and well bred, this princess was frequently written about in the
society pages on both sides of the Atlantic. Her dresses were
described in minute detail, and she was often the subject of party conversations.
Hoping to ride
the princess' coat tails into New York high society, the
entrepreneur's wife ordered an exact duplicate of the princess'
wardrobe from Worth one season. He objected. The princess and the
socialite were nothing alike in coloring, body shape, or proportions,
so he attempted to steer the woman to more appropriate selections.
She flatly refused.
She wanted to
be able to tell her friends that she had the same wardrobe as the
princess. And she was willing to pay for it. Handsomely.
Worth wanted
to say no. His sensibilities demanded it. Why would any woman willing
spend a fortune to look bad copying someone else's style when she
could look so much better creating her own? It just didn't make any
sense to him.
But his
finances ultimately decided the issue. He was running a business,
after all. As much as he disliked these "nouveau riche"
Americans and their loud, flamboyant ways, they kept the House of
Worth open. The Americans never quibbled about price and they paid
their bills on time - which was more than he could say about many of
his European clients, unfortunately, including the celebrated princess.
In the end, he
gritted his teeth and prepared duplicate wardrobes for the socialite
for several consecutive seasons, until the princess' popularity waned
and the socialite was well established. The concession remained a
sore point with Worth for the rest of his life.
I remember
reading this story several years ago but it popped into my head again
recently as I walked behind a woman at the mall. She was trolling
about in no makeup, a sloppy sweat suit, and paint-stained sneakers.
Oh, and she was carrying a Burberry handbag.
Hmm.
I wonder what
Worth would have thought about that?
Probably the
same thing he thought about the socialite and the princess: that
money can buy many things, but it can't buy good taste.
If you're not
born with it, you have to cultivate it. As in study, experiment, and
make mistakes.
That is the
process. You can't bypass it with a wad of cash or a high credit limit.
Unfortunately,
that's exactly what many people try to do. They seem to think that
wearing designer apparel automatically makes them chic. It doesn't.
That's like saying that singing in the shower makes you a rock star
or putting on a tiara makes you Miss America. The potential is there
in each case, but nothing is a given.
I know women
who can stop traffic wearing $40 worth of clothes from Walmart and
others who don't warrant a second glance sporting $4,000 worth of
designer apparel.
The clothing
itself doesn't make you chic; it's in knowing HOW to find and wear
the right pieces for you that makes all the difference.
If you've been
thinking about adding designer brands to your wardrobe because you
are trying to upgrade your image and can afford to pay cash to do so,
then by all means, do. But before you spring for a label, ask
yourself why you're doing it. Are you caught up in the "me
too!" frenzy of a certain popular princess - er, I mean brand,
or are you seeking to establish a signature style?
If it's the
latter (and I certainly hope it is), here are some guidelines to
consider so that you don't become a "label victim:"
1. Know
Your Designers
This seems
obvious, but many people stumble right out of the gate on this one.
When women tell me they like labels and I start quizzing them on
their preferences, I either get a short list of the current hot names
or the vapid, "I like all of them!"
Translation:
"I don't know a lot about it but I don't want to look ignorant."
Fair enough.
Not everyone can spend their days thumbing through fashion magazines.
But if you're
going to spend the money, for goodness sake, educate yourself! I've
seen people do lots of research before buying major appliances,
computers, and travel then thinking nothing of dropping the same
amount for apparel they saw on their favorite celebrity. Does seeing
Carrie wear it on "Sex and The City" qualify as due
diligence? For some people, it does.
For the rest
of us, a troll around some of the big runway sites like:
or luxury
department store sites like:
will help us
see some of the key differences in brand philosophies.
2.
Understand Your Preferences
Once you start
learning more about the different designers, you'll probably find
yourself drawn to one or two. You might not like everything they
offer every season, but overall, they tend to have a selection that
you like.
You'll also
find other designers that will make you wrinkle your nose and wonder
who in the world buys their stuff. If one of these happens to be a
current social or celebrity favorite, you may be wondering what
others are seeing that you're not.
It all boils
down to clothing personalities, which is discussed in detail in
WARDROBE MAGIC:
http://www.wardrobemagic.com
Some people
like ruffles and lace, some like color and drama, some like plain and
simple. Once you understand what you like and find the designers that
make those kinds of clothes, you're well on you're way to cultivating
your own sense of style.
3. Whisper,
Don't Shout
Nothing
shouts, "LABEL VICTIM!" more than excess. This can be
wearing the same designer head-to-toe, flashing logo accessories on
every limb, or even becoming a walking billboard for a brand by
wearing the name in big letters on your shirt, pants, etc.
Okay, we get
it already!
Yes, wearing
luxury brands implies that you have some money. But wearing them all
at the same time in a conspicuous display suggests that you have no
taste. It's like thinking that because a pinch of salt makes a dish
scrape-the-plate delicious, adding a tablespoon will make it even
better. It doesn't. It overpowers everything else, rendering the food unpalatable.
So it is with
luxury brands.
Knowing how
much is too much is what separates the best dressed from the victims,
the leaders from the lemmings.
If you're
going to walk around and endorse a brand to excess, at the very
least, you should get paid for it - don't you think?
4. Create A
Proper Showcase
Watching the
woman in the grubby sweat pants carrying the Burberry bag reminded me
of the time I went to a rural wedding where they served champagne in
Styrofoam cups at the reception. The premium item didn't upgrade the
cheap surroundings; the cheap surroundings downgraded the premium item.
If you're
going to go to the trouble and expense of buying designer apparel or
accessories, be sure to provide a worthy backdrop to showcase the
piece, like a frame around an exquisite painting. Otherwise, people
will either assume it's a fake, or that you have no taste. Or both.
5. Don't
Pay Retail
Finally, don't
pay retail for luxury brands if you don't have to.
If your guy
takes you to the couture houses in New York, Paris, or Milan and
tells you to get whatever you want, that's one thing (although don't
be surprised if he picks out something, like a necklace or pair of
shoes, and asks you to model it wearing nothing else).
But if you're
spending your own money, let your fingers do the shopping at any of
the great discount designer sites online like:
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Find your
favorite designer brands like Michael Kors, Vera Wang, Dolce &
Gabbana, and more at prices up to 75% off suggested retail. Beautiful
pieces, nice variety. $$$
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Deal.com
is another great place where overstocks and discontinued items get
snapped up by savvy, discerning shoppers. Find all sorts of items
here, from names like Liz Claiborne, Harve Bernard, Burberry, and
more at prices that will make your bank account sing for joy. Also
has Women's sizes. $
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Chrisian
Lacroix, Marc Jacobs, Michael Kors, Celine, Dior, -- and so many
more. If you can't find your favorite designer brands elsewhere
online, you'll probably find them on eLuxury.com. $$$
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Prada, Dolce
and Gabbana, Bill Blass and more are just a few of the names you'll
find here, at prices up to 80% off suggested retail. These overstocks
get snapped up quickly, so "get while the getting's good."
Also offers some women's sizes. $ to $$$
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Nicole Miller,
Tahari, Michael Kors and more at the website that Loehmann's online
calls home. Like the legendary store, you have to "grab it when
you see it," or it might not be there next time you visit. Has
some women's sizes. $ to $$$.
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Yes, wearing
luxury brands gives you a certain cachet - but only if you do it
correctly. If you opt for labels that compliment your body shape and
clothing personality instead of chasing the latest fad, you'll
cultivate a style that's distinctly your own, turning heads wherever
you go. You'll also make your favorite designer proud, instead of
reducing him to taking your money and turning a blind eye to your
"me too" sense of style.
Until next time,
Diana Pemberton-Sikes
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com
http://www.FashionForRealWomen.com
http://www.FashionSavvy.com
http://www.WardrobeMagic.com
http://www.FashionJobReview.com
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