The Clothing Chronicles

The Clothing Chronicles
 January 20, 2005 #163
FashionForRealWomen.com

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In This Issue:
Message From Diana
Feature Article: How To Project a Great Image Even When It's Cold

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>> MESSAGE FROM DIANA

I started the new year by ordering a new pc, and it arrived -- complete with "techno gremlins." I've battled my way through ISP issues, software incompatibility, and even a cd rom drive malfunction. So what happened when I finally managed to get everything under control and sit down to do some work? The light bulb on my desk lamp went out. Argh!

At least everything had the decency to hit all at once. Now that I have all that drama out of my way, maybe I'm headed for "smooth sailing" from here on out.

Hey, I can dream ... :-)

So what do I have in store for you today? Something appropriate for January in the Northern Hemisphere: how to look hot - even when it's cold.

Enjoy!

Diana
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com

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>> FEATURE ARTICLE

How To Project a Great Image Even When It's Cold

While driving my daughter to school earlier this week, a teenaged boy crossed in front of me at the stop light, heading toward the high school. He wore a knit cap, a long sleeve t-shirt, a pair of pants, and some high-end tennis shoes. Nothing out of the ordinary, I suppose, except that it was around 25ºF (0º C) outside and this kid wasn't wearing a coat. His shirt sleeves hung empty, flapping in the wind, because he'd pulled his arms out of his sleeves and wrapped them around his body for warmth. All in all, he looked ridiculous - not the "cool" he was after, I'm sure.

Now I used to think this sort of crazy behavior was only limited to teenagers. But after living in Houston for nearly a decade where I saw many people "brave the elements" without outerwear during those infrequent cold snaps rather than wrinkle their clothes under a coat, I know such antics have little to do with age. Heck, I even knew folks who refuse to wear seat belts for fear of the errant crease in their clothes. So what you have to endure from Point A to Point B is of little consequence, so long as you look good when you get there, right?

Wrong.

There's a thin line between caring about how you look and caring SO MUCH about how you look that you leave common sense at the door. One makes you look like you've "got your act together." The other makes you look vain and vapid.

So before you inadvertently nullify your grand entrance with foolish "pre-performance" behavior, consider this story from John T. Molloy, the father of the "dress for success" movement:

When assessing which elements of dress made men appear successful, Mr. Molloy conducted a series of experiments to see how the average person responded to different pieces of clothing, like suits, jackets, shoes, etc. Whatever pieces scored most favorably became part of the "dress for success" wardrobe.

One of these experiments concerned the color of trench coats. Two men, dressed identically except for the color of their trench coats (one beige, one gray), were asked to personally deliver an envelope to the CEO of several mid-sized businesses in a large city. They were then told to record how long they were kept waiting until they saw the CEO.

The man wearing the beige trench coat was kept waiting anywhere from 30 seconds to 2 hours at each stop. The man in the gray trench coat was kept waiting anywhere from 1 hour to 2 DAYS.

So because the man wearing the beige trench coat was perceived as being more successful and therefore of more importance by receptionists than the man in the gray trench coat, he was granted easier access to the person in charge. The end result? Hours of a man's time were controlled by the preference for a certain color.

So what does this study have to do with you?

Well, if you never leave your house, probably nothing. But if you ever make sales calls, go to restaurants, hail a cab, or interact with others when it's cold or wet, it could mean a great deal. For if a receptionist has the power over a man's time based on the color of his coat, it stands to reason that all sorts of people at all levels of the social hierarchy could exert a similar influence over YOU while you're transitioning from Point A to Point B, based on how you're dressed.

With that in mind, here are some things to think about when you're headed out the door on those foul-weather days:

1. If It's Cold, Wear A Coat

Simple, basic stuff, I know, but words that bear repeating. You may think you can handle the cold for the few moments that you're exposed to the elements, but you can't always expect that it will only BE a few moments. Delays happen. Plans change. Weather gets worse. So if you're ever caught without a coat, it should be by surprise, not by choice.

2. Choose Classic Styles For Maximum Versatility

Classic styles offer the most options and are the best choice if you're on a tight budget or if you live in a warmer climate that doesn't always require a heavy coat. Trenches, pea coats, and wool dress coats can be worn with business, dress, or casual wear, so if you only want to buy one coat, make it one of these in a neutral color. They'll last for years without looking dated.

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3. Match Your Coat To The Mood of Your Clothing

If you're wearing casual clothes, wear a casual coat. If you're wearing dress or business clothes, wear a dress coat. Don't pair a snow jacket with a business suit or an evening wrap with your jeans. It makes you look like you don't know what you're doing.

4. Match Your Outerwear Accessories To The Mood of Your Coat

In the same vein, a ski mask paired with an elegant wrap looks about as classy as hiking boots with a pin striped suit. So don't wear them together. Match the tone of your clothing to your outerwear coat and accessories and you'll always look pulled together.

5. Remember That You Don't Have To Buy Everything At Once

Since building a versatile outerwear wardrobe can be costly, don't think you have to buy everything at once. Buy the pieces that will have the biggest impact first, like a warm coat and gloves, and fill in with other items as your budget allows, like an evening wrap or different types of boots. Borrow if you can, shop end-of-season sales when possible, and don't forget to add these items to your birthday or holiday lists. You'll have a nice selection before you know it.

Looking good in bad weather doesn't have to be a challenge if you plan appropriately and build a versatile outerwear wardrobe. What's more, by making a conscience choice to dress adequately for whatever the day might bring, you'll be delighted by how well you're received and treated by those you meet. In fact, as Molloy discovered, you may even find yourself being brought to the front of line.

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Until next time,

Diana Pemberton-Sikes
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com

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