The Clothing Chronicles

The Clothing Chronicles
 February 17, 2005 #167
FashionForRealWomen.com

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In This Issue:
Message From Diana
Feature Article: What NOT To Wear To Work

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>> MESSAGE FROM DIANA

Hope you and yours are all healthy and well and not fighting all the crud that swept through the mid-Atlantic this week. Everyone in my family has been sick, and one day last week, 25% of the children in my daughter's school were home sick. One of the other schools closed completely for the day. Yikes! Nothing like having a lot of people confined in a small space to let a virus run rampant&ldots;

Anyway, in a follow up to last week's issue about dressing the non-standard sized body,

http://www.theclothingchronicles.com/archives/166-02102005.htm

I listed sites that might be of interest to petite, tall, and plus size women. Afterwards, I was contacted by consultants from two direct sales companies to let me know that they also offer specialty sized apparel, with beautiful merchandise and top-notch customer service.

If you're a non-standard size and are looking for some alternatives to your local market, you might want to take a look at:

Just a thought -

So what's on tap for today's article? What NOT to wear to work.

Enjoy!

Diana
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com

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>> FEATURE ARTICLE

What Not To Wear To Work: A Top 10 Guide for Women

A little confused about what to wear to work?

You're not alone. With society becoming more casual and many company dress codes going un-enforced, it's not unusual to walk into a business and see employees wearing anything from gym clothes to traditional business attire.

But just how much is this "anything goes" attitude impacting businesses? Well, with Human Resource professionals reporting that nearly 95% of people dress inappropriately for their jobs, it's translating into fewer sales, unhappier customers, and lower employee salaries.

Most of which could be avoided if workers simply understood the importance of appropriate business dress. Unfortunately, many of them don't. They're putting comfort and personal style ahead of being appropriate and relatable, and it's cost them BIG in terms of credibility, promotability, and income.

So what SHOULDN'T you wear to work to avoid being inappropriate?

Well, if you start with these three basic tenets:

    1. The more skin you show, the less formal it becomes.

    2. How you dress for business (sloppy, rumpled, tidy, immaculate) is often considered a reflection of your skills.

    3. How well you represent your company's image through your attire will determine how easily you succeed there.

You can pretty much eliminate what NOT to wear by simply covering appropriately, dressing with care, and representing your company with pride.

So what are the top ten things NOT to wear to work?

1. Gym Clothes

Sweats, shorts, and tennis shoes have their place, but it usually isn't at work -- unless, of course, you work at a gym or in the fitness industry.

2. Club Clothes

Sequins, sparkles, and other cocktail attire all qualifies as after-five apparel. So don't wear them to your day job -- EVEN if you'll be hitting the club scene after hours.

3. Plunging Necklines

Ever try to hold an intelligent conversation with a man when you're wearing a plunging neckline? You can't - he's too busy sneaking peeks at your cleavage. Which is why, if you want to be taken seriously in business, you should not wear revealing necklines to work.

Daring neckline
Newport-News.com

4. Midriff Tops

Unless you work as a belly dancer, no one at work should see your navel. Keep your belly covered and focus attention elsewhere - like to your talents, brains, and savvy.

5. Super Low Rise Pants

Like midriff tops, super low rise pants show too much skin and create a distraction. Opt for more modest styles to be taken more seriously at work.

6. Micro Minis

Since it's all about covering up for credibility, you need to save your micro minis for after hours -- unless, of course, you work as a cheerleader for a professional sports team.

7. Flip Flops

Flip flops are cute, fun, easy-to-wear, and the best-selling footwear on the planet. But unless you work on the beach or as a lifeguard, they're way too casual for work.

 

Flip Flops
Bluefly.com

8. Stiletto Heels

Bare legs and stiletto heels spell seduction, not serious business. Think they're sexy? You're right, they are -- which makes them perfect for after hours, but completely inappropriate for work.

9. Slogan T-shirts

Love rock-and-roll, Elvis, or your neighborhood insurance company? Then say it with words, not on a t-shirt you wear to work. Not only are slogan t-shirts way too casual for the average office, their message often distracts from the business at hand.

10. Piercings In Odd Places

If people are staring at your eyebrow, nose, or tongue ring, then they're not paying attention to what you're saying. So don't create a distraction with piercings in odd places; keep attention focused on the business at hand.

Now you may think these guidelines are old fashioned or that they infringe on your personal style, particularly if you work in a creative field. You may be right.

But there's not a lot of wiggle room in creating a good first impression in business; either you're dressed appropriately, or you're not. If you cross the line into inappropriate, you'll lose credibility, business, and income - regardless of how brilliant you are. That's just how the world works.

Let me put it another way:

Did you ever play on a team sport in school? What would have happened if you showed up to play a game without your uniform? Would you still have been allowed to play? Probably not. Why? Because uniforms quickly identify all the players in a game, so that everyone - players and spectators alike - know at a glance in the midst of hard play who belongs to which team. If you're out of uniform, you can't be identified quickly as belonging to either team.

Business attire is exactly like that. Show up to work in the uniform of your industry, and you can get to work on "moving the ball forward," so to speak, in fulfilling your company goals. Show up in any old thing, and people have to figure out what team you're on and what position you play. It can stall your career just like it stalls a game, but without you even realizing it.

So what should you NOT wear to work?

Anything that jeopardizes your credibility and pulls attention away from the matter at hand: fulfilling the job you were hired to do.

Need some more suggestions on how to create a powerful, profitable image? Download a copy of BUSINESS WEAR MAGIC to see how income-enhancing the proper business attire can be,

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Until next time,

Diana Pemberton-Sikes
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com

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